by: Al and Lisa Robertson
When we are first called to help a couple in crisis, we often
wonder what the motivation is that the partners have for wanting to save their
First of all, we believe that God has placed permanence in our
hearts - it’s in our DNA to desire lasting and meaningful marriage
relationships. Most cultures
throughout history have honored marriages that endure the test of time. Most people understand that a cheating
spouse is a dishonorable spouse. Take a man’s wife in almost any culture, and
you’ll soon find out that people expect...
By: Al Robertson
In our latest book, we shared the story of Anna and
Trey. If you want the full
narrative, you can read it in chapter seven, Put Down Those Stones. But
the short version is that their marriage was one step away from being
irrevocably shattered because of a whole host of sexual sins and infidelities.
Even though Trey had a hand in leading Anna into sexual sin,
when he felt betrayed, he not only didn’t freely admit to his own sin at first,
but he took an aggressive and judgmental position against his wife. Those...